Dear (me),
I hope that you had a safe trip home. I am very glad that you came all the way over my way to meet me.
I have been swimming in thoughts all day, I was feeling strange this morning and perhaps I seemed out of sorts.
There is no easy way for me to say this, and I am truly sorry that I will hurt your feelings, however I must be honest and true to myself. I felt as though meeting you was a good experience, I enjoyed your company and it was really nice to spend the night with you, but the thing is, I didn’t feel the spark that I was hoping for, I’m not sure why or what it is but I must trust my instincts and believe that I will make the right decisions. I feel strongly that we are not destined to continue a friendship from this point on. I have really enjoyed our emails and the process has really helped me to understand a lot about myself.
I want to suggest friendship but I do not think that is a good idea, it has gone too far now for that. I think that you are a very interesting person who has a lot of light. I wish you the best for the future and I am, again, sorry that I say what I say.
From, you
*hug* That is terrible. You certainly deserve more than to be told the anticipated spark wasn’t there. I’m sorry you were hurt this way. Sometimes people suck.
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Thank you, lovely person! 🙂
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Ouch!
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Yep.
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😛 that’s sad. I”m sorry that happened but there must be someone much nicer out there for you then.
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I’m sure there is, my heart will open up again in time 🙂 It is what it is.
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Still sucks right now though 😦
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How long has it taken you to get over someone?
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Hmm. That’s a tricky one. I have started dating before when I wasn’t over someone and that didn’t end well! Otherwise I guess I’ve mostly been lucky that when my relationships have ended I’ve accepted that they weren’t right for me anyway. Evidenced when I found the right one!!
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Oh okay so you have found the right one? 🙂
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8 and a half years, two kids, a dog, a cat and a house later, I hope so, cause it’s going to be pretty messy if he’s not! 🙂
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Oh hehe brilliant! 🙂
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Reblogged this on BENT ON LOVE and commented:
Oh yeah that kinda sucked. I was sad for at least a month. oh well better off without that kind of person in my life. Yey! 🙂
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